Some things I learned from community living on the Race. Enjoy!
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Built-in accountability partners for everything from exercise to prioritizing time with the Lord
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Never have to feel alone or like no one cares
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Can actually do life together: 24/7 constant togetherness
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Become adept at sharing small living spaces, kitchens, bathrooms, beds, and the like
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Headphones are the universal “Do not disturb” signal and the best quality alone time you will get. You learn to tune everything out: people talking, local kids peering over your shoulder, etc
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People get comfortable with each other real quick and all manners are tossed aside
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You can call out giftings in each other and challenge and encourage each other on the regular
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Nudity is a common occurrence (among female teammates): it’s hot and there’s no A/C….
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You get to witness others’ growth in the Lord and cheer them on and be a part of their journey with Him
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You have numerous adventure buddies to enjoy each country with
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People talk in random accents/ voices and tell Dad jokes and break out in musicals and it’s normal
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You have quadruple the wardrobe because “what’s mine is yours” and the same 6 outfits you brought get old after awhile so you trade
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You count on your teammates for everything from retrieving your lost hydroflask to carrying your big pack when you’re sick or perhaps just had your appendix out
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You learn to crank out any type of ministry event at the last minute and everyone uses their individual talents to make it work
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Any type of bodily function is discussed at any moment, especially meal times
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You learn to fight for others’ voices to be heard and to prefer others over yourself
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You whip up a meal with whatever combination of ingredients you have remaining
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You become good at balling on a budget and adjusting to everyone’s various allergies
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You get close to people that you wouldn’t ordinarily click with initially because when you live in close proximity and are intentional with each other, surprising deep friendships blossom
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Accidentally walking in on someone in the bathroom is pretty common
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You learn to give and receive hard (constructive) feedback and grow from it
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You become spontaneous, adaptable, and flexible: nothing really surprises you anymore and you can change plans on the fly
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Your personal bubble gets popped real quick and those non-physical touch people get used to lingering hugs, Lap sitting in packed vehicles, hand holding during prayer, and nit-picking (lice)
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You have to rely on your teammates to take care of you and fight for you when you’re sick or injured
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Your menstrual cycles sync together since so many women are together and yours is liable to come early and on a travel day, naturally
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You learn what your talents and giftings are and how to use them in a group dynamic to edify the Body
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You aren’t allowed to go basically anywhere alone and you get used to always being accompanied by someone
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You have the unique opportunity to learn from a myriad of amazing people in close living quarters
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You discover everyone’s different vices, pet peeves, preferences, and triggers and you push their buttons sometimes just to stir things up a little
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You dream of one day when you will have your own actual bed, bathroom with a western toilet, sink, shower, and mirror, and entire bedroom to yourself
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At the same time, you know it was those months when your whole team was crammed in one room on the floor that cemented your teams and hold the fondest memories